Three days later, it was Ben's real birthday, I began my celebration by meeting with Sukru Hanioglu of Near Eastern Studies and Ted Rabb of History. Coming home to see Ben in the birthday hat was a step forward as the decorations were set and Ben opened the diet snapple for Suzanne as we ate the pasta and Ben performed to the amusement of Jane Suzanne and me who didn't seem to get a good self portrait and needed help to fit into the frame. Next was the present opening

with a predominant theme of basketball and gift cards keeping the balloons happy as more gift cards

appeared along with this elegant birthday card with a barely readable message as we assembled a few cards looked at a gift or two and set things aside waiting for Ben's twelfth birthday.